That time I got ghosted during my senior prom and zucchini pancakes

21 thoughts on “That time I got ghosted during my senior prom and zucchini pancakes”

1. womp womp fake story

2. Can’t focus on the ingredients when I am listening to a story. Stop please 😂😂😂😂. Good stories. Or please write the ingredients down. 😂. Pretty please.

3. I think your story is probably quite familiar to most of us women. My first “boyfriend” wanted more than I was comfortable with so I called my mom to come get me from a party. He called me the next day to dump me. I was heartbroken. But it taught me to stand up for myself and my own worth, not to cheapen myself and that a real man won’t pressure me. Took me several years to find him, but I finally did. We’ve been married 12 years now and have four kiddos.

4. Maybe I’m just tender today but “not all core memories are good ones” made me tear up. I think I have a lot of those

5. Maybe he panicked. It's easy to see how when something happens to you, especially when you're young and it's a milestone with the opposite sex, that you internalise the situation and define it as something initially meant to hurt or dismiss you or your feelings, but in truth, all young people are anxious and in their heads and quick to overthink and misinterpret situations with the opposite sex. Could be that he felt embarrassed, rejected and ashamed and couldn't master the courage to carry on the night.

6. "I said no no no until he finally stopped" I really don't like how it was until he FINALLY stopped. No means stop NOW. This guy already went too far by not stopping immediately. Proud of younger you for repeating that "no" until he stopped. I know it can be hard

7. Very important lesson

8. Thank you for sharing, you made me realize something that it's okay to say no.❤

9. It's very difficult not to bend to peer pressure especially when you are a teenager. The best advice I can give to anyone of any age is: go with your gut (your instincts), they will never lead you wrong.
   BTW- Your zucchini pancakes look wonderful, Joanne Lee.

10. I also got ghosted at a dance! Homecoming though not prom – first time i had asked out another guy and when we got to the dance he … ignored me and pined for this girl he liked the whole time 🙃

11. Oooof, glad I dated early and was smart about it. my parents were awesome and educational.

12. I mean girly getting rejected isn't fun he's a person with feelings too

13. Ok but you didn't get Ghosted…. you rejected him profusely and he left as gracefully as he could since you clearly weren't interested in him… what was he supposed to do? Cling to you after you pushed him away 😂

    Ffs if you got Ghosted you'd have likely been reliving that sad scene from 'Never been kissed' and you'd still be waiting on your porch.

14. Great story. As a father of three young girls (all under 6) I'm already working really hard on teaching them the power of no. If someone cares about you they will respect your no.

15. Honestly the guy was probably embarrassed 🤣 like ikkk in that moment it hurt you girl but he was so ashamed he couldn’t show his face so points to you!!! Also he was immature cause like he didn’t even have the maturity to stick around after a girl said no to him 🙄 def not a gentleman. You def did the right thing : )

16. The zucchini pancake looks so good

17. Definitely dodge a bullet

18. Thank you for sharing your stories

19. Love vegetable pancakes. I can eat 5 of them in one sitting esp with a variety of vegetables in it. Bitter melon, carrot, and onion is a good combo for a pancake!

20. I kind of understand you. But, I was never aproach, maybe bcs I had self-esteem issues that I still try to manage to this day bcs of bullying….I am 23 year old and I never had a relationship and still have my V card. I am just afraid to get hurt, that I am not good enough and to just be tough:(

21. 😊

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